Physical abuse:
Pushed or shoved you.
Held you to keep you from leaving, or locked you out of the house.
Slapped, bit, kick, or choked you.
Hit or punched you.
Thrown objects at you.
Abandoned you in dangerous places.
Refused to help you when you were sick, injured, or pregnant.
Subjected you to reckless driving or kept you from driving.
Raped you.
Threatened or hurt you with a weapon.
Sexual abuse:
Made demeaning remarks about women.
Treated women as sex objects.
Acted on jealous anger.
Insisted you dress in a more sexual way than you wanted.
Minimized the importance of your feelings about sex.
Criticized you sexually.
Insisted on unwanted touching.
Withheld sex and affection.
Called you names like "whore "or "frigid "
Forced you to strip when you didn't want to.
Publicly shown interest in other women.
Had affairs with other women after agreeing to monogamy.
Forced sex.
Forced particular unwanted sex acts.
Forced sex after beating.
Committed sadistic sexual acts.
Emotional abuse:
Ignored your feelings.
Ridiculed or insulted women as a group.
Insulted your valued beliefs, religion, race, heritage, or class.
Withheld approval or affection as a punishment.
Criticized you, called you names, shouted at you.
Insulted your family or friends.
Humiliated you.
Refused to socialize with you.
Kept you from working, controlled your money, made all decisions.
Refused to work or share money.
Taken car keys or money away.
Regularly threatened to leave or told you to leave.
Threatened to hurt you or your family.
Punished the children when he/she was angry at you.
Threatened to kidnap the children if you left him.
Abused pets to hurt you.
Manipulated you would lies and contradictions.