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The only way for me to have sex now would be to divorce my wife.
My son loves his mother.
What kind of man would I be to separate my son from his mother?
No…I am just going to keep getting in the groove on this chastity thing.
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I feel contentment…
This is a very real need.
I feel content being a person who carry’s the message of the healing qualities of chastity to other men.
It is humble…but, it is enough.
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On Saturday, March 29, 2023 at 6:15 PM
the first meeting of F-Anon took place between Steve D. and Pamela ? with 35 years and 34 years of food recovery, respectively.
It was proffered forth that there are many people who have husbands, wives, sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers or close friends who are food addicts.
It was proposed that we meet to discuss our feelings, attitudes, beliefs, and appropriate actions to take when faced with these situations.
Steve D.
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There are some strong spiritual drivers to this Chastity period:
Unselfishness around my son
Unwillingness to act out and lose sobriety
Loving the strength and clarity of Chastity
Being able to serve men in a special way by helping them do their own first Chastity periods
Knowing I will never be chaste this long again and not wanting to peak
Chastity makes every other type of recovery look easy
It’s nice to experience what some of my hero’s experienced: Saint Augustine, Joan of Arc and Gandhi…I don’t have that kind of spiritual talent, but I get to share a tool with them…Chastity
And…honestly, no one is interested in me and honestly…I’m not interested in anyone else.
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I went to a plant-based Food Addicts Anonymous meeting today.
They are pretty self-restrained around meat and dairy and are very strict around their quantities of food, flour and sugar.
I feel that way about alcohol, but I also feel that way about sex.
Masturbation is extremely self-harmful and so are affairs.
I also find objectification, fantasy and intrigue harmful to my self-esteem and peace of mind.
With Chastity it is real dumb-simple, kind of like the Nike slogan…”Just do it”.
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I have always had a backup plan:
If PrayerCall folds, go back to All Addictions Anonymous.
If All Addictions Anonymous folds…go back to AA.
For three months I have gone back to “face to face meetings” in AA at 10:00pm seven days a week.
My experience is that:
Some people love me, are friends, and feel in no way threatened.
Some people are envious of my many recoveries, and some are really angered, specifically, at my sexual addiction recovery.
Some people are respectful and admiring.
Some are envious of my food addiction recovery.
And some people I can genuinely help with their beginning AA sobriety.
I am grateful for AA’s ubiquity and longevity…but, if it is your will, Lord, please keep PrayerCall going…as there is nowhere else to talk about Chastity, freely and openly.
Amen