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Warning: I accept that I will be angry as a celibate man.

The Seven Steps of Celibacy:

1) I accept that there is power in me

2) I sing, discipline my body, pray and meditate…everyday

3) I feel all my feelings...and share them where it is wise to

4) I am open to feedback from trustworthy people

5) I confront and set boundaries with others

6) I accept my limits

7) I laugh

 

If you can persevere this pathway to peace, for 60 days, you will find the following Promises coming true:

The Celibate Promises:

1)) We will be more available to our children

2) We will be more present and productive at work.

3) We will become stronger and more supple.

4) Our financial situations will clear up.

5) Our artistic and “spiritual” aspirations will be realized.

6) Self draining sexual/romantic relationships will suddenly wither and die

7) We will have more clarity, intuition and personal power.

8) We will have more fun.

9) We will finally...relax

 

Also, if you practice these Seven Steps, your needs just might get met, perhaps for the first time in your life:

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God, help me to

  • Stay in touch with my feelings
  • Set boundaries with those who are harmful
  • Announce limits so as not to harm myself.

Help keep me emotionally healthy by meeting my needs for:

  • Safety
  • Love and belonging
  • Esteem of others
  • Self-esteem

To fully actualize, or realize myself, help me meet my needs for:

  • Near constant Prayer
  • Self-transcendence through Service
  • Spirituality through connectedness, originally with God, then others, and finally, lastingly and constantly, with myself
  • Contentment through realization of my highest, realistically attainable goal
  • Creativity through creating beauty for the joy of it
  • Peace of mind through knowing my soul

 

The following slogans, while practicing chastity, turn out to be God's Will:

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I will:

Laugh at myself

Believe that I will get better

Trust God

Serve others

Have a positive attitude

Smile

Forgive myself

Pray

Read spiritual literature

Exercise

Forgive others

Manage my money

Relax

Do nothing

Have fun

Be aware of my food

Be conscious of my sexual choices

Announce limits

Grieve losses

Set boundaries

Accept reality

Feel my feelings

Meet my needs

Be self-restrained

Enjoy my choices

Share with others

Persevere

Connect

Practice self-discipline

Rejoice

 

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"To achieve chastity, be prepared to lose everything. Chastity is a ravaging force to which nothing seems sacred or inviolate. It rips to shreds the structures and foundations I built in weakness and ignorance."
The Courage to Heal

 

Here are some slogans to use when practicing chastity to help strong through each three hours.

"Talk doesn't cook rice."
DOH,DOJ

“There are those who choose to live like eunuchs to know the kingdom of heaven. If you can accept it, accept it”.
 Matthew 19:11:

"Acceptance is being positive."
Anonymous

"I surrender my right to be sexual."
Anonymous

“Do not give your strength to women, your vigor to those who ruin kings."
Solomon

“Keep a path far from her, lest you give your best strength to others”.
Solomon

“When should you have sex with a woman? When you want to lose the strength you have”.
Pythagorus:

“A man dissipates his physical strength through ordinary incontinence”.
Gandhi

"Control of the palate is the first essential in the observation of the vow."
Gandhi

“Life without celibacy appears to me to be insipid and animal like”.
Gandhi

“We did not squander our energy on addictive acting out, in spite of severe temptations to do so”.
SLAA

 

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Chastity is not something you want to do for the rest of your life, unless you are a professional priest or monk, but, you also don't want to miss this experience for yourself

"For some of us, however, there is no passage to life, only from one stage of dying to another. Too few lessons have been learned, too little wisdom has been gained for the wound to heal. There is nothing natural or guaranteed about a springtime of the spirit."

"Behind every marvelous tale of death – left– behind is a common theme of peak moments. These peak moments may occur as long as we live. Or they may not. Perhaps we'd better make a decision someday sooner than tomorrow."

"Healthy living demands enough of a central focus that something gets finished once it gets started.  Lacking this we often return to fight the same battle once again."

 

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We have a slogan we use at ActWithCourage.com "Chastity is King".

Honestly, I feel like a king when I practice chastity.

Here's the best description of being a King that I know of:

Psalm 21 Excerpt:

1 O LORD, the king rejoices in your strength. How great is his joy in the victories you give!

2 You have granted him the desire of his heart and have not withheld the request of his lips. "Selah"

3 You welcomed him with rich blessings and placed a crown of pure gold on his head.

4 He asked you for life, and you gave it to him--length of days, for ever and ever.

5 Through the victories you gave, his glory is great; you have bestowed on him splendor and majesty.

6 Surely you have granted him eternal blessings and made him glad with the joy of your presence.

7 For the king trusts in the LORD; through the unfailing love of the Most High he will not be shaken.